There were guys who had the courage to take advantage the weaknesses of a woman who loved and trusted him. A relationship that started from interaction. It was the result of building a feeling due to attraction. Knowing each other fully well, sharing and talking each other until it developed into something more, joining their hearts together. Why so sudden an attraction? Because the man was very friendly, handsome, approachable and talented most women admired? Or, due to something else that she only know within herself.
Most women started to improved their appearance, changing their hairstyle, doing make-over, maintaining an ideal weight to be more pleasing to the eyes of the guys they love.
One story I've known I used as an example for this article.The relationship started with flying colors. He was an American guy proposing relationship to the Asian woman he loved. She was in love with him deeply and honestly. The feeling she had inside her heart, an emotion of trust and confidence hoping they will be together for good. It took 3 years of a wonderful relationship. It blossomed everyday until the day they decided to get married with the refusal of her parents about their relationship. As she loved the guy, she went against the will of her parents without their blessings and protected him all the way.
Then suddenly without warning, it changes everything she hoped.. Her world crumbled down, the decision she made faltered. It all started when another woman entered into the scene. She did not realized that trusting so much has its own price and it did pay, and it was heartache. She made a mistake not knowing that the guy had a hidden secret behind his masked of deceit. All those wonderful moment with him gone with the wind. She lost everything, heart was broken, dreams shattered, tears falling down from the eyes as a sign of pain, anger and lost. She had a relationship that never realized. It pained her knowing that the guy did not truly love her. It hurts her so bad.
It was painful remembering that the guy did not give importance to her feeling. This sad experience cannot be recovered in a single day. The healing may need a lot of time and space especially it started to affect her mind making it hard for her to forget what happened in her life. This feeling of emptiness will continue to eat her existence for some time.
For those who still started to enter into a relationship with a man, be cautious. Don't give too much trust. True behavior will appear sooner or later. Give time for yourself to know him better before accepting him. Check his true intention to you. There were many ways to determine the truthfulness of an intention. Don't dive into a relationship immediately based on the reason that you love him deeply. Be sensible and be smart. If you are not yet sure about your feeling, then don't do, you might regret it later.
If you failed, move on. The pain will continue for a period of time. Give yourself time to heal naturally. Don't try to develop into another bout of mental strain, if possible avoid it. It can only bring back the feeling you wanted to avoid delaying your full recovery. It is the only chance you've got. Get your life back. Don't let that feeling dominate you.
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